Failing to be Fertile

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We live in a culture that is totally focused on lack.  We are constantly fed a message that we aren’t enough, we aren’t thin enough, pretty enough, financially stable enough… and so on.  If someone else is winning, we must be losing. We then end up attaching meaning to not feeling enough. This is then reinforced…

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How do you find certainty on a fertility journey?

Most women when faced with challenges that they can’t control (like their fertility) usually do one of three things. They either run away, try to numb themselves or try to control it.  That’s what I see and hear from my fertility clients all the time. They end up caught in a web of trying to…

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Becoming Obsessed with Fertility?

I’m sure many women reading this can relate to that feeling of becoming totally obsessed with wanting to become pregnant.  You may be a woman who has always achieved whatever you have set your sights on in your life up until now and yet this is the one thing that no matter how hard you…

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Finding Your Zen

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If we turn to the eastern philosophy of Zen for its wisdom, we can see that most of our struggles in life come from being too tightly attached to a particular outcome.

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